Shopping trip today with two married girlfriends. Interesting discussion of infidelity ensued. I admitted nothing, wanting to keep the information totally out of the schoolyard. I was very surprised that of the three of us two are actively considering affairs (I am actively considering one in that I let another man put his dick in me) and the third had been involved in one. Interesting also was our thinking about the morality of it: there was no judgment of the type that I think you would find among newly married women. I think years ago we all thought that an affair was a statement that the relationship was over. We agreed today however that sometimes you just need a little more in your life and that it does not mean you want out.
I also shared that the reason that I am not overly fond of my marriage is that my husband is frankly, like a child in a lot of ways. Basically, if you are not willing to be a grown up and pick up after yourself and put your shoes away and pull your weight - why do you expect that I would find you sexy? If I had a full partner I do not think I would need anything on the side.
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